Delain // We Are the Others
Rating: 2.5/5.0 — For our ever-growing 12-17 year old girl demo.
Label: CNR Music | Sensory Records
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Release Dates: US: 07.03.2012 | EU: 2012.06.01

Delain - We Are the OthersI was once 12. When I was 12, I really loved a few things that I would never listen to in this day and age. Hell, these are things that I probably wouldn’t admit if I wasn’t anonymous. I listened to the likes of Korn and Biohazard. I know [and now WE know!Steel Druhm]. But the thing was, this music was perfect for me when I was 12, because they had the lyrics that spoke to a 12 year old (what that says about the grown men writing those lyrics on the other hand…), and a sound that wasn’t too complex but that felt tough. I learned all about being tough from Biohazard and I learned all about wallowing in my self pity from Korn. These were important lessons and Delain is teaching these kinds of lessons to a new generation of 12 year old girls. And while that might seem rude, I really can’t think of anyone else who would listen to this.

Delain is one in a line of female fronted gothic rock and heavy music from the Netherlands. Like The Gathering and Within Temptation and Epica, they’re fronted by a woman who has a fantastic voice, and while the project has moved away from its original intention of being a studio project with a lot of guest vocalists (á la another project by a Cheesehead called Ayreon), We Are the Others is carried by Charlotte Wessels’ voice to pretty good effect. The songs here are catchy, poppy and simplistic. They’re not particularly heavy, but from time to time (like the opening riff from “Mother Machine” or “Where Is the Blood” or “Babylon”) the band knocks out a thrashy sounding riff, or a nü-metal groove that gets the head nodding. Still, the musicians are largely anonymous behind Wessels’ lead and despite having listened to this record a bunch of times, I can’t think of a stand out musical passage that isn’t done with a voice.

I think the major downfall of the record is set up in two parts (aside from the pretty anonymous musical profile). The first is that the lyrics aren’t great ever and the often times range between sad and embarrassing. Title track “We Are the Others,” (which I have been singing as “We are the otters” all week) is all about being a social outcast and how sad that is—while listening to music that could be played on pop radio and that is actually less edgy than Die Antwoord or Lady Gaga—is just kind of embarrassing, to be honest (“Normal is not the norm / Take off your uniform.” Fuck. Shoot me.). But if you’re a 12 year old girl who is unpopular for whatever reason, I’m sure that it speaks directly to your soul (and is emblazoned on your trapper keeper). But possibly the worst song on the record lyric-wise (not music-wise, it’s actually a really beautiful piano part and vocal melody) is “I Want You,” which is all about (you guessed it) unrequited love (and stalking). What speaks more to 12 year olds than unrequited love (and stalking)? Nothing, I’d wager. In any case, whoever is writing the lyrics managed to hit a roadblock (after two bridges and a huge reptitive chorus) and that’s when we get this artistically brilliant utterance: “No one could see it coming / A tragic day / How did that car get in your way?” Which is followed by the chorus only with the words “I got you” instead of “I want you.” Actually, I take it back, that’s brilliant.

Delain by Sandra LudewigIn any case, I feel like the big take away from Delain (downfall #2 if you’re keeping count) is how culture is a feedback loop of socialization. This record is full of tracks aimed at girls, who are learning important lessons about relationships and whose lives are reflected in the nearly always boy-related lyrics. With lessons like “If I hurt you so much (where’s the blood?),” young women are learning that only physical damage is real damage. “Milk and Honey” tells the heartwarming story of threatening revenge against someone after getting dumped (on a nice day). Now, I know that all the metal I grew up listening to was also socialization—see the first paragraph—I guess it feels more obvious on this record, because while it’s nominally “alternative,” it’s actually remarkably normative in its construction of gender roles in the lyrics and music1.

All of that said, as a gateway band for kids, I think that Delain is probably remarkably successful. Until recently they were signed to Roadrunner, and it was Roadrunner that dumped Life of AgonyType O Negative, and Biohazard in my lap as an impressionable kid. These were all gateway bands for a kid who’d gotten lost in the post-Nirvana alternative deluge but still loved heavy music. From that perspective, the catchy melodies with some heavy themes and heavy riffs don’t go over that terribly. The music doesn’t make me sick like Amaranthe but it certainly doesn’t speak to me like The Gathering did or Theatre of Tragedy‘s early stuff did, either.

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  1. This is not to say that lyrics from male metal bands are not normative. I’d argue, instead, that heavy metal is a particularly normative form of music. Violent expressions of anger, partying, and womanizing are all normative expressions of masculinity. One could argue, however, that women are in a position as already being outsiders in a male-dominated scene, to break their own normative position and be empowering (like Angela Gossow from Arch Enemy or Christine Davis from Christian Mistress) as opposed to writing songs about boys all the time. Part of this problem might lie in the fact that masculine normativity is empowering for men, whereas by its very nature, feminine normativity is not empowering, hence the commonality and proliferation of “get in the kitchen” jokes.
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  • hubcapiv

    But if you’re a 12 year old girl who is unpopular for whatever reason, I’m sure that it speaks directly to your soul (and is emblazoned on your trapper keeper). ”
    OMG it’s like the soundtrack of my life!

    And to anyone thinking about complaining about this review…at least it’s not more retro-thrash.

    • Don’t you worry, we have more retro-thrash coming up later this week!!!

      • hubcapiv

        Thanks for the warning..lemme go out and warm up my skull tank…

        Ah, we kid because we care.


    Seriously though, I think you described one of my main gripes with almost every other female fronted “metal” band. Almost everything on these seems to be done exclusively to showcase the voice. And then the PR seems to be focused on the female curves. FINE, I GET IT, you have a WOMAN in your band OMG, the pitch on the voice was kind of a dead giveaway, you don’t really need to put her so high on the mix, neither have to wear a cleavage so deep it stops at the pubic area, now can we have some REAL music? Every record we buy form these kind of bands makes us deserving of shit like BABYMETAL, and that other “band” that has a couple of pornstars as “singers”

    • I feel ya. There are some good exceptions, though. Acid King, SubRosa, and Christian Mistress come to mind, if you like sludge/stoner. Then there’s Diablo Swing Orchestra and Eluveitie, though the lead vocals are shared between male and female. I’m sure there are others, but you’re right – it is an annoying trend lately.

      • Yes, there are worthy exceptions, besides the names you have I was thinking of Witch Mountain, the sadly extinct Ludicra, Landmine Marathon and recently I just found out about Bestial Holocaust, I mean holeeee sheeeet. 

        And then you have bands like Huntress. They may have chops worthy of praise, but it all seems cheapened somehow for the sometimes ridiculous amount of attention that they get from the press because of Jill Janus. It may be a gimmick that some people would consider not so different than the ones pulled by people like Attila Csihar, but as trends go, I hope that bands with female vocalists or attractive keyboardists stop being so damn exploitative. I guess that it is difficult to change because “SEX SELLS”, but I’m damn glad that there’s people like AMG that can at least call their musical BS.

      • I think those exceptions definitely help make this kind of stuff feel even more pathetic in a way. We see women taking to the scene and being awesome, so why this? It’s just sad. 

  • Allyson Kenning

    Generally like Delain, though I can’t seem to get my head around this album.  For me the oddest and most bizarre track was “Hit Me With Your Best Shot.” I don’t know about you, but I can’t listen to this without hearing the Pat Benetar song of the same name.  The lyrics are terrible!

    • Hit Me with Your Best Shot is definitely one of the weirder tracks on the record. I wasn’t really a fan. The thing about it is that even right now I’ve got the choruses stuck in my fucking head. I might have to go back and give the band a try later on. 

  • This is the reason I found Royal Thunder so engaging – it wasn’t until halfway through the 2nd song you could tell it was a woman singing. A great voice (regardless of gender) is no excuse for being the centre of your band’s goddamned universe 

  • At 12 I had just started to listen to heavy metal. It was Iron Maiden mostly. 
    And apart from that listened alot to Franz Ferdinand’s first album and video game soundtracks. And I was just about to find out about Blind Guardian,Skyclad and somewhat out of mainstream acts which opened up the metal world to me. Thinking back I had pretty good taste. But Iron Maiden was very appealing to me as a kid with all their magic, fighter planes,mummys,demons and a singer that is both a rockstar, fencer and an airline pilot.  Its full of “PIEW” PIEW” and “VROOOM” and (makes airplane noises with mouth while pretending my hand is a spitfire)

    • Funny, Skyclad was a band I was listening to as well. But I didn’t really discover power metal until I was already 18/19. I loved Iron Maiden, Metallica, Megadeth, Testament and some other stragglers from when I was a little kid, but between the ages of about 11-16, I was still very much into punk rock—stuff I wouldn’t even touch mostly these days (with the exception of Bad Religion and Propagandhi; two bands I still love). 

  • Hey Type O Negative is awesome at any age. Good lyrics too.

    • I still love Type O. I’m just saying that they were a gateway band.

  • Three years later I see this comment. I’d be interested if you still have the image that you’re referencing here.

    Anyway, I love ‘heavy pop’ at times, too. I think the thing is that power metal is kind of heavy pop. But it’s true that the power bands fronted by women tend toward heavy pop more than the ones fronted by dudes. Still, I think Sonata Arctica is kind of a heavy pop band, and they do it really well (you should listen if you haven’t). For me Delain would be a lot better if I didn’t find these lyrics to be completely inane and horrible.